Giving: Between You and God, Not a Dollar Score

1. God Sees the Heart — Not the Amount

From Genesis to Revelation, Scripture shows that God measures the heart, not the size of the gift.
When Jesus watched people giving in the temple, He didn’t praise the wealthy donors — He honored a poor widow.

“She put in two small coins, yet she gave more than all the rest. For they gave out of their abundance, but she, out of her poverty, put in all she had to live on.”
Luke 21:1–4

That story shatters the idea that God keeps a dollar scoreboard.
Her gift had no financial power — it was the faith behind it that moved heaven and earth.
Faithful giving is an act of trust and worship, not a transaction.


2. Giving Is Between You and God Alone

Jesus made it clear that your giving is private, sacred, and personal — between you and God.

“When you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your giving may be in secret. Then your Father, who sees in secret, will reward you.”
Matthew 6:3–4

That means:

  • It’s not for show.
  • It’s not about impressing a pastor or congregation.
  • And it’s definitely not a negotiation for a blessing.

Your generosity becomes a holy conversation between your soul and your Creator — a reflection of gratitude, faith, and love, not a financial strategy.


3. Blessing Comes Through Faith, Not Finances

Nowhere in Scripture does God say, “Give Me money, and I’ll give you more back.”
Instead, He says, “Believe, and you will see My glory.”

“Without faith it is impossible to please God.”
Hebrews 11:6

Faith opens the door to blessing — not money.
If blessings could be bought, they would no longer be a gift of grace.
Grace means unearned favor; it’s God’s goodness given freely, not bought with tithes or “seed offerings.”

“You cannot serve both God and money.”
Matthew 6:24

The so-called “prosperity gospel” confuses cause and effect.
Faith doesn’t grow because you give more money — faith gives because you trust God more.


4. God’s Economy Is Not a Business Transaction

Some preachers teach that giving money is like investing — “sow this seed, and God will multiply it.”
But that’s not how God’s kingdom works. God doesn’t run a financial exchange. He runs on love, trust, and obedience.

“Freely you have received; freely give.”
Matthew 10:8

If someone tells you that you must give money to be healed, to get a breakthrough, or to earn favor — that’s spiritual manipulation, not Scripture.

The truth is simple:

  • You cannot buy a blessing.
  • You cannot pay for faith.
  • You cannot purchase God’s favor.
    What God wants is your heart — not your wallet.

5. God’s True Reward

God blesses faith, humility, and obedience.
Sometimes blessings are material, but often they’re peace, strength, guidance, or joy — things money could never buy.

“Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
Matthew 6:33

When you walk by faith and not by sight, you position yourself for real blessing — the kind that lasts eternally, not temporarily.
You don’t give to get; you give because you already have — grace, salvation, mercy, and love.


6. The Early Church Understood This

The first Christians didn’t give to earn divine returns. They gave because they were transformed.
They understood that generosity was a natural outflow of gratitude.
They lived as if everything they owned already belonged to God.

“All the believers were together and had everything in common. They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need.”
Acts 2:44–45

That wasn’t forced giving or seed planting — it was faith in action. They did not seek to be blessed, but because they already were.


7. The Real Measure of Generosity

God is not counting dollars; He’s counting love, faith, and compassion.
A heart that gives out of faith is infinitely more valuable than a hand that provides out of guilt or fear.

World’s ViewGod’s View
Give more, get more.Believe more, trust more.
Dollars measure devotionFaith measures devotion
Blessing is financial gain.Blessing is spiritual fullness.
Giving is an obligation.Giving is worship

8. The Heart of the Gospel

God gave His Son freely — not because we earned it, not because we could repay Him, but because love gives.
Our giving should mirror that same spirit: free, loving, and without condition.

“For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son…”
John 3:16

That’s the model.
Giving out of love — not pressure, not performance, and never purchase.


When you give quietly, faithfully, and from a sincere heart, God smiles — not because He’s keeping score, but because He sees trust.
Blessing flows from belief, not balance sheets.
Faith moves mountains; dollars do not.

1. The Early Church’s Heart for Sharing, Not Accumulating

The Didache (c. A.D. 70–120)

One of the earliest Christian manuals — used to teach converts — says:

“Do not be one who opens his hands to receive but shuts them when it comes to giving.”
“Share all things with your brother, and do not say that they are your own.” (Didache 4:5–8)

This reflects the same spirit as Acts 2:44-45 — believers cared for each other so that no one suffered lack.
There’s no mention of tithes to clergy or “seed faith” gifts — only mutual support and practical compassion.


2. Justin Martyr (A.D. 150) — Worship Through Giving to the Needy

In his First Apology, describing Christian worship to the Roman Emperor, Justin wrote:

“Those who have and are willing to give freely what each thinks fit. The collection is deposited with the president [the elder], who helps the orphans, widows, those who are sick, or in prison, and strangers sojourning among us.”

This is crucial — in the second century, giving was voluntary and its purpose was clear:
Supporting people with low incomes, not enriching leaders or building luxury.


3. Tertullian (c. A.D. 197–220) — Condemning Greedy Teachers

Tertullian, one of the earliest Latin theologians, said of Christian gatherings:

“Every man once a month brings some modest coin, but only if he is willing. There is no compulsion; it is all voluntary. These gifts are not spent on feasts or drinking, but to support and bury poor people, to supply the wants of boys and girls destitute of means and parents, and of old persons confined to the house.”

(Apology 39)

This demonstrates that giving was modest, voluntary, and compassionate — directed to people in need, not for personal gain.


4. Clement of Alexandria (A.D. 190) — Against Wealthy Preachers

Clement warned believers not to confuse wealth with blessing:

“It is not in the power of the rich man to possess much, but to use much rightly.” (Who Is the Rich Man That Shall Be Saved?)

He rebuked those who hoarded money under the name of religion, teaching that true wealth is found in mercy and righteousness.
His message: God entrusts wealth as a tool, not a trophy.


5. The Apostolic Constitutions (A.D. 250–300)

A later manual describing how churches should operate:

“Let the bishop distribute the offerings to those in need… for the orphans, widows, the afflicted, and strangers in distress.”

Again, the focus was not on luxury or personal enrichment, but on pastoral stewardship — caring for the vulnerable as a sacred duty.


6. Summary — What the First Christians Believed About Giving

Early Church EraPurpose of GivingMethodRecipients
Didache (1st century)Sharing and equality among believersFreelyFellow Christians in need
Justin Martyr (2nd century)Charity as worshipEach gives what he decidesPoor, widows, orphans, prisoners
Tertullian (2nd century)Mutual aid, not indulgenceVoluntary monthly offeringsPoor, elderly orphans
Clement of AlexandriaStewardship, not greedMoral teachingThose suffering
Apostolic Constitutions (3rd century)Pastoral duty to serveCommunity-managedNeedy and afflicted

7. Why This Matters Today

What you see in those early writings is a radical contrast to modern “prosperity gospel” culture.

  • No one demanded tithes or promised blessings for donations.
  • Church leaders lived modestly, serving others first.
  • Generosity was the fruit of love, not the price of a miracle.

The first Christians believed that faith without compassion is dead (James 2:14-17).
They measured devotion not by what you gave to a building or preacher, but by how you loved your neighbor.

1. What the Bible Really Says About Tithing

Old Testament context:

  • The tithe (Hebrew: ma‘aser, meaning “a tenth”) was part of the Mosaic Law.
  • Israelites gave 10% of their agricultural produce and livestock to support the Levites, who had no land inheritance (Numbers 18:21–24).
  • There were actually multiple tithes — one for the Levites, one for festivals, and one every third year for the poor (Deuteronomy 14:22–29).
  • It was a national, agricultural system designed for Israel’s theocracy, not a command for New Testament believers to give 10% to a church.

Key verses:

“Bring the full tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house.” — Malachi 3:10

However, note that this was addressed to Israel, with the intention of maintaining the temple and priests.


2. The New Testament Standard for Giving

Jesus never commands Christians to tithe, but He affirms generosity, sincerity, and care for others.

  • Matthew 23:23 – Jesus tells Pharisees they tithe but neglect justice, mercy, and faithfulness.

“These you ought to have done, without neglecting the others.”
His point was not “tithe or be blessed,” but “don’t think money replaces love or integrity.”

  • 2 Corinthians 9:7 – Paul gives the most straightforward New Testament principle:

“Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.”
The emphasis is on freedom, sincerity, and love — not pressure or manipulation.

  • Acts 2:44-45 – Early believers shared everything so that no one among them was in need.
    Giving was voluntary and communal, focused on people, not luxury or hierarchy.

3. Why God Doesn’t Tell Your Pastor He Needs a Jet

God’s Word never endorses the accumulation of wealth for spiritual leaders.
Scripture consistently warns against using religion for financial gain:

  • 1 Timothy 6:5–10

“…people who think godliness is a means to financial gain… For the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil.”
Paul’s warning is specifically directed against those who exploit faith for personal gain.

  • Titus 1:11

“They must be silenced, because they are ruining whole households by teaching things they ought not to teach — and that for the sake of dishonest gain.”

  • Matthew 6:19–21

“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth… For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”
Jesus contrasts worldly riches with eternal values.

A pastor claiming “God told me I need a plane or a Rolls-Royce” contradicts these teachings. God doesn’t need luxury to advance His mission — He desires humility, stewardship, and service.


4. The True Biblical Spirit of Giving

The Bible emphasizes compassionate generosity, especially toward the poor and oppressed.

  • Proverbs 19:17

“Whoever is kind to the poor lends to the Lord, and He will reward them for what they have done.”

  • James 1:27

“Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress.”

  • Matthew 25:35–40

Jesus said, “I was hungry and you gave me food… Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.”

God wants your heart more than your money.
Giving to help a struggling neighbor, feeding the hungry, supporting honest missions, or serving your community — that is the essence of godly giving.


5. Summary

False Prosperity TeachingBiblical Truth
“You must tithe or God won’t bless you.”God blesses from grace, not payment (2 Cor 9:8).
“Sow a seed into this ministry to get a miracle.”Giving is never transactional; God can’t be bought (Acts 8:20).
“The pastor deserves luxury for his faith.”Leaders must be humble servants (1 Peter 5:2–3).
“Money equals faith.”Love and obedience show faith, not wealth (John 14:15).

Bottom Line

God calls us to give freely, wisely, and compassionately, not under compulsion or manipulation.
The measure of your faith isn’t the size of your offering, but the sincerity of your heart and love for others.


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Investment in Your Own Success vs. Sacrifice

The buzzwords “what sacrifice are you willing to pay?” Is your life of happiness, joy, abundance really a sacrifice? 

Throw the word sacrifice out the window and replace it with; Investment in my own success!

After thinking about this a lot. What I have come to learn is I am not making any sacrifice in my life. To some degree in my life, I have since you hear over-and-over again. Sacrifice, what you are prepared to do? What I am sure of is I am ready to make an investment in my own success.

joy, happiness, success

Some of you will be saying the sacrifice I have to make is time. I am going to have to work night & day to complete my dreams. Work weekends, never having a life. Horse Manure!

Making an investment in your own success also includes time. For those of you that say I don’t have time, I suppose you don’t understand how to manage time properly. Don’t scream! Here me out.

Activity vs. Productivity
You can be busy as hell all day long. What did you accomplish? Learn to fill your day with productivity. Organize is the key! 

When you can learn the difference between these to words, time will begin to heal itself. Here are some examples that will help you get started:

  1. Plan your day down to the hour. Have set activities from hour-to-hour that net a result. Tasks.
  2. Learn to limit social media to downtimes NOT during activity hours. Seeing what your sister is making her kids for dinner can wait. Social media is the biggest killer of productive time.
  3. During productive hours shut off the world for a bit to focus. Setting boundaries for idle chitchat is okay. Let friends and family know you will be off the air from this time to that. Emergencies are obviously the exception to the rule. “Mom, can I have $20 to go to the mall can wait for an hour.”

Fill your day with productive time, not wasted time. The three items above give you the idea.

If you feel like you have to give up something to be successful, you need to rethink your plan. For many, it’s time with family. Dedicate times for date nights, time with children, school functions, and kids firsts. Organize your time. Calendar in your day!

calendar, organize, details

Typically, when you organize your day. Take out distractions best you can. Finding twenty hours a week in wasted time is an average.

When you work this out, you can have time for family, social, and activities outside your career. Making an investment in your life includes family. Make times to be present for spouse and children.

You will be more productive when you organize your life out to include growth. Which leads me to something many are doing, and I just began.

Begin your day at 4:00 A.M. 

Before you scream, hear me out! 

Most folks get up between 6 am, and 7 am to get ready for work. So let’s assume for a minute you get up and six. You have the same 24 hours that we all get. Break this down:

24 hrs. – 8 hr work day = 16 hr left – 2 hr commute = 14 hr left – 6 hr to sleep = 8 hr. 

You have Eight odd hours to fit in time for family, and investments in your own success. This can fluctuate a bit from day-to-day, but overall, this is how hours in a day can break down.

You cannot become successful without organizing each day. Activity is just that activity which produces nothing typically. Productivity produces purpose and results.

When faced with the dilemma that you’re sacrificing things in life, that’s really no life at all. I am not suggesting that sometime you may have to make a tough choice. What I am saying for sure that that will always be the exception NOT the rule.

Organize down so the contingency has a contingency. Have the discipline to follow your daily tasks to the letter. Try to never leave a task for tomorrow. If you have to make sure to knock it out first thing, before starting your routine when possible.

Change does take time and you will have setbacks. Just keep grinding forward. Even when you see NO way, believe me, a way will be made if you stay in faith.

What investment in your own success will you make today?

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