We Choose Life

Life is a journey filled with unexpected events, some pleasant and some not so much. These events can be anything from losing a loved one, experiencing a job loss, or facing a health challenge. While we may not be able to control what happens to us, we do have the power to control how we react to those events. Maya Angelou once said, “You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.”

What does this quote mean? First, it means that no matter what happens, we can rise above it. We can choose not to let our circumstances define us or dictate our future. Instead, we can take control of our lives and decide how we want to move forward.

One of the biggest challenges we face in life is dealing with unexpected events. These events often leave us feeling helpless, overwhelmed, and out of control. However, it’s important to remember that we still have power over our thoughts and actions. Therefore, we can focus on the positive aspects of our lives and find ways to overcome our challenges.

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For example, let’s say you lost your job. It’s easy to feel defeated and powerless in this situation. However, you can view this as an opportunity to explore new career paths or start your own business. In addition, you can use this experience as a catalyst to make positive changes in your life and pursue your passions.

Another example could be facing a health challenge. While this can be a scary and overwhelming experience, you can choose to focus on the things you can control, such as eating a healthy diet, exercising regularly, and practicing self-care. You can also seek support from friends, family, and medical professionals.

Ultimately, the choice is yours. You can choose to be reduced by your circumstances, or you can choose to rise above them. It’s important to remember that you are not defined by what happens to you. Instead, you are limited by how you respond to those events.

In conclusion, Maya Angelou’s quote reminds us that we can choose how we react to the events that happen to us. While we may not be able to control everything in our lives, we can control how we respond to those events. We can choose to let our circumstances define us, or we can choose to rise above them and create a better future for ourselves. The choice is ours.

In addition to choosing to rise above our circumstances, we can be happy. Happiness does not come to us naturally, but rather, it’s a choice we make every day. Even amid challenging situations, we can still find joy and happiness in the small things.

For example, if you are going through a difficult time, focus on the things that bring you joy. This could be spending time with loved ones, engaging in hobbies you enjoy, or simply walking in nature. By focusing on the positive aspects of your life, you can shift your mindset and cultivate a sense of gratitude.

It’s also important to remember that happiness is not a destination, but rather, it’s a journey. We can’t wait for something to happen to be happy. Instead, we need to make a conscious effort to find happiness in the present moment. This could be as simple as taking a moment to appreciate the beauty around us or expressing gratitude for the things that we have.

In conclusion, choosing to be happy is a powerful way to take control of our lives. Focusing on the positive aspects of our lives and finding joy in the small things can cultivate a sense of happiness and contentment. While life may not always be easy, we can choose to be happy and make the most of every moment. Maya Angelou once said, “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” So, let’s choose to spread happiness and positivity wherever we go.

Stay in your Lane

One of the best lessons I have learned; stay in my lane. Don’t get caught up with the drama, political bullshit, or anything that you personally have no control over.

When you learn to stay in your lane, you take care of what you do have control over. First and foremost is to handle your business. Getting caught up in the news or life events that we simply have no control over is counterproductive.

Taking care of our own life, our family should be our primary focus. If you let outside influences ruin your day. Ask yourself, “Why would I do that to myself.” The answer should be, “I’m not.”

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We could get twisted up about Washington’s political hogwash and let that steal our joy. Ask yourself this question: “Do I have the ability to change anything in Washington outside of my vote?” Probably not, so why worry. It does not matter who is there; we can all pick apart the political process.

What should matter is how we process each day. How we interact with our family and relationships. “Am I living a life God would say, Well Done!” That being the case, the rest of life is nothing to stress over.

Staying in your lane means to live the life God has planned for you. Do the work in front of you that is from your heart. Don’t allow outside influences to steal your peace, joy, and happiness.

Prioritize your life so that nothing can interfere with your joy. Organize your life to win!

  1. Have a productive daily routine. 
  2. Stay off Social Media during productive times. 
  3. Pray and meditate on the life you desire. 
  4. Keep God first in all you do. 
  5. Focus on body, mind, and soul daily. Healthy habits. 

Stay in your lane! 

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