Peace instead of War


The foregoing is a fictional solution to war. Governments are what muck up the water. You put two mothers together that have children that will fall. I promise you peace can be made. Sure, there will be naysayers but keep it simple. Too much bullshit is just that bullshit.

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The year is 2042. The world is at war. Anya’s and Maria’s countries have been fighting for years. The war has caused much pain and suffering on both sides.

Anya and Maria are both mothers. They each have a son who is fighting in the war. They are both desperate for peace. They know that the only way to end the war is to find a way to talk to each other.

One day, Anya and Maria meet by chance. They are both at the market, buying food for their families. They start talking and realize they have a lot in common. They both want peace, and they both want their sons to come home safe.

Anya and Maria decide to work together to find a way to end the war. They know it will be difficult but are determined to succeed. They believe peace is possible and wlll do whatever it takes to make it happen.

The two mothers sat across each other at the long table, their faces etched with worry. They had been brought together by a mediator, who had told them they had one week to devise a peace plan, or each one would lose a child.

The two women were from different countries and had very different ideologies. The first woman, Maria, was from a country where a dictator ruled. She believed the only way to achieve peace was to overthrow the dictator and install a democratic government. The second woman, Anya, was from a country ruled by a democracy. She believed the only way to achieve peace was to work within the system to make changes.

The two women stared at each other for a long time, neither willing to back down. Finally, Maria spoke.

“We can’t do this,” she said. “We’re too different. We’ll never agree on anything.”

Anya nodded. “I know,” she said. “But we have to try. Our children’s lives depend on it.”

The two women continued to talk for hours, trying to find common ground. They spoke of their children, their hopes, and their dreams. They talked about the pain of war and the longing for peace.

As the sun began to set, the two women finally agreed. They would work together to create a peace plan acceptable to both countries. They would start by meeting with their leaders and explaining the importance of peace. They would also reach out to the people of their lands and ask for their support.

The two women knew it would be complex but determined to succeed. They had to do it for their children and their world’s future.

The two women worked tirelessly for the next few months, meeting with their countries’ leaders and people. They faced many challenges, but they never gave up. Finally, after months of hard work, they reached an agreement.

The agreement called for a ceasefire, the withdrawal of troops, and the start of peace talks. It was a historic moment, and the two women were heroes. Finally, their children were safe, and their world’s future was brighter.

The two women continued working together for peace, eventually becoming close friends. They learned that despite having different ideologies, they could still work together to achieve a common goal. They also learned that the most essential thing in life is not what you believe but how you treat others.

The two mothers faced many challenges in their quest for peace. Their biggest struggles were:

  • Their different ideologies. Maria believed that the only way to achieve peace was to overthrow the dictator, while Anya thought working within the system was the only way to achieve peace. These different beliefs made it difficult for them to find common ground.
  • The pain of war. Both women had lost loved ones in the war and were carrying much pain. This pain made it difficult for them to trust each other and to believe that peace was possible.
  • The pressure from their respective governments. Both women were under pressure from their governments to make concessions. This pressure made it difficult for them to stand up for what they believed in.

Despite these challenges, the two mothers were able to find peace. They did this by:

  • Putting their children first. They both knew finding peace was the only way to give their children a better future. This gave them the strength to keep going, even when things were tough.
  • Listening to each other. They took the time to understand each other’s perspectives, even when disagreed. This helped them to build trust and to find common ground.
  • Being willing to compromise. They knew they wouldn’t get everything they wanted but were ready to compromise to achieve peace.

The two mothers’ story is a reminder that peace is possible, even when it seems impossible. It is also a reminder that the most essential thing in life is not what you believe but how you treat others.

Need to Stop Arguing this may Help

How to start a civil conversation when you and your spouse, significant other, are fighting to the point you can’t say a nice word. This takes both you coming to the table as a cease-fire.

This is a fantastic way to have a civil conversation. What our goal will be is to talk without fighting. If you can begin a civil discourse, then you can start to find healing words and a way back to happiness.

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For this, to work, you have to both agree to NOT talk about your fight. This is a total cease-fire of all ugliness! Each must come with an open heart. 

  1. Make a time where you can sit down totally uninterrupted. No alcohol, no wine, just coffee or a soda. The two of you ONLY. Kids need to-go-to grandmas.
  2. Each of you agrees with no curse words.
  3. Rock, paper, scissors to see who talks first. Best two out of three if needed.

So what is the conversation going to be?

Give this some thought before you sit down. Assuming you are agreed.

Pick something about your life that your partner does not really know about you. The story can be about anything except for a topic that Segways into your argument. 

The whole point of this is to talk about something that allows the two of you to communicate! Each takes a turn in telling a story, having a conversation that is merely the two of you talking.

If you’ve completed this, we have one more exercise.

What made you fall in love with each other? Have a conversation about what makes you happy together.

If you can do these two things then perhaps what you’re arguing about is not that big a deal. Sometimes, we just need to talk civilly and then remember why we love one another.

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